This article has taken me a step further on my healing journey. My ex has Hep C and hid it from me and all his previous partners. My anger and feeling of betrayal have been triggered this week as I see people being so selfish in their response to the COVID pandemic. When I found out about my ex, I felt like a victim of violence. What I experienced was “violence, the opposite of care.” He let himself off the hook when I got tested and it was negative. Although I was relieved with the results it did not negate the fact that he knowingly put me and many other women at risk. I like how in your article you talk about how we need to take care not just for ourselves but for others. Although unrelated, this piece helped validate a lot of what I have been feeling. Thank you.